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John Clayton: Dad takes on 'Naked Baby Syndrome'
By JOHN CLAYTON
New Hampshire Union Leader Staff
Monday, Nov. 9, 2009
MANY OF the joyous moments of parenthood sneak up on you, but none so much as the day, when, at the conclusion of the afternoon nap, you walk into the baby's room to find your toddler -- once clad in a diaper and those adorable footie pajamas -- standing at the rail of the crib wearing nothing but a smile.
The diagnosis: Naked Baby Syndrome.
Once he or she gets the hang of it, a 1-year-old can shed clothing faster than Superman, or, for that matter, Gypsy Rose Lee.
In the beginning, these spontaneous outbreaks of nakedness can be amusing in a Houdini kind of way, but sooner or later -- given the potential hygiene pitfalls and the awkward receptions at day-care -- it can become a major cause of baldness and/or ulcers in young parents.
Fortunately, a Manchester native and her inventive husband have come to the rescue by way of an invention called "Mooki's." The inventors in question are Dana (Jelley) Reid -- she was the first female commanding officer of West High School's Naval Junior ROTC program -- and her husband, Randy Reid, but, if necessity is the mother of invention, then the credit for "Mooki's" should go to their daughter, Maren.
She's the one who made it necessary.
And, for the record, from birth, Maren's nickname was "Mookimoo."
"It all started back in 2007 when Maren was about 18 months old," Randy explained. "She began removing her clothing at naptime and bedtime, and while we knew this was a perfectly normal phase of development, we worried that loose sleepwear in the crib created a dangerous suffocation and strangulation hazard. We also worried that since we avoided bulky blankets and bedding, without her clothing, she would be cold and unable to sleep comfortably."
Like most parents, the Reids tried to think of alternatives, but here is where I should point out that the Reids are not like most parents.
Randy spent 23 years in the Coast Guard and retired as a chief warrant officer. Dana is still in the Coast Guard, and the only reason Randy isn't is that, when it was time for them to start a family, he volunteered to stay home and serve as primary caregiver.
Yes, there is a special place in heaven for husbands like Randy Reid, and no one was more proud than Randy as he watched Dana -- while nine months pregnant -- accept a major, career-enhancing promotion.
By the time Dana assumed command of all Coast Guard operations in the critically sensitive DELMARVA Region -- that being Delaware, Maryland and Virginia -- Maren was six weeks old and Randy was playing Mr. Mom.
"It made sense financially and professionally that I become the primary caregiver for Maren, but I was clueless in my new role," he laughed.

When little Maren Reid started shedding her sleepwear in the crib, her parents -- including her dad, Randy -- created escape-proof toddler pajamas. (COURTESY)
Still, father and daughter forged a strong bond -- "As a father raising an infant, I received strange looks on the playground," he noted -- and things were going pretty much according to plan until one day at naptime when he came back to find Maren halfway out of her sleeper.
"I re-dressed her, but within 10 minutes, she had completely removed the garment," he said. "Each day and night, our 'Mookimoo' became more proficient at removing her sleepwear. It was a game, and she was winning."
Randy went to the Internet and searched scores of parenting blogs, only to discover that parents everywhere, having tried everything from duct tape to safety pins, were still being outsmarted -- or should I say outstripped? -- by their clever kids.
Randy's solution?
"I took a pair of scissors to one of my daughter's footie pajamas, hacked it up and turned it around to where the zipper was in the back. 'Mooki's' was born and it worked immediately."
After a year of tinkering -- a year in which the Reid family was transferred to upper Washington state where, among other things, Dana has been working with the Royal Canadian Mounted Police on security planning for the upcoming 2010 Vancouver Winter Olympics -- Randy perfected his product.
"My military background kicked in and I was a man on a mission," he said. "I worked day and night to design, develop and produce the 'Mooki' for manufacturing and now -- with the zipper in the back, out of the reach of curious fingers -- the doors to my 'virtual store' are open."
You can find that virtual store at mookimoo.com where his marquee, patent-pending, cotton product sells for $18.50 per outfit, but if you're thinking about holiday shopping, you'd better think fast.
The Reids and "Mooki's" have already been featured in "Inventors Digest" magazine. "Parents" magazine will run an item on the garment next month, and, when I spoke to Dana last week, her husband was preparing for an interview with "Entrepreneur" magazine.
"Believe me, I'm the one behind the scenes," said Dana, who was inducted into the West High School Hall of Fame in 2007. "I help with the business plan, but this is Randy's vision and he's the day-to-day, go-to guy."
Pretty soon, the go-to-guy is going to be moving back East.
That's because his wife was recently selected for promotion to commander, and she was also selected as one of only five Coast Guard officers to attend the Naval War College Postgraduate Command Program in Newport, R.I., that begins next year.
As for Randy, "Mooki's" is his to promote.
"The response we've received from parents has been tremendous and makes us want to help others," he said. "I feel grateful that I had the opportunity to create 'Mooki's,' and the bond between my daughter and me is one most fathers can only dream about."
And that's the naked truth.
John Clayton is the author of several books on Manchester and New Hampshire, including his newest title, "Remembering Manchester." His e-mail is jclayton@unionleader.com.

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Andrew Cline has been editorial page editor of the New Hampshire Union Leader since October of 2001. His writing has appeared in more than 100 newspapers and magazines, including The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post, and National Review.
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Isn't a straight jacket built on the same design?
- The Other Jake, Manchester
Ha ha, my mother told me it took her years to get me to keep my bathing suit on whenever I saw water. I assumed every lake stream and ocean was a big bath tub until I was nearly 4 yrs old! Rumor has it that even neighbor's lawn sprinklers had the same effect on me. I am sure the world is relieved I out grew this.
- cj, Manchester
I had to do the same with my daughter. I cut off the feet of her footie Pj's and put them on backwards. (1996) I have one picture of her in them and people ask why it is on backwards, and I explain. There always seems to be that one child in the family who does such a thing.
- k, hillsboro
Not for nothing, cuz it certainly is a great idea, but didn't pajamas used to come with zippers or buttons in the back? I thought the design was changed (maybe 15 years ago?) to a front access as it was easier to dress the baby.
- Maggie, Brentwood
Who would have thought you could make money on this. I have already cut the feet out of pajamas. Zipper on the back just made sense logically. (smacks himself in the forehead).
- Tom, Manchester
That is not the only thing they do when they shed the diaper in the crib when they are supposed to be sleeping. It can be very messy. Believe me. Been there, done that.
- Bill, Wolfeboro
Kathy in Raymond: superior post. TY.
Jake in Manchester: TY for the LOL. ;)
- Nemi, Keene
We used to do this too! Worked like a charm :)
- MS, Hooksett
Necessity is the mother of invention, and I wish the Reid’s success in their new business.
I always get excited when I here about a home town success story.
I am the mom of a former “naked baby”. I can relate to the concerns of a new parent who’s first priority is the care of their child. You want them warm and protected, and feel frustrated when they don’t comply. It is the independent strong willed child who will challenge your parenting instincts and cause you to want to use duct tape to solve a problem.
Like it or not here is my two cents worth of wisdom: “Pick your battles”
Your baby was perfectly happy naked for the first nine months of life. Seriously consider what you are doing when you take away their ability to be independent or make themselves feel comfortable. I am not trying to imply that this new pajama is not a good idea. I clearly see how it would meet the needs of some people. There are some situations where you can safely step back from what You Want and let the natural consequence of a behavior be the teacher. You child will learn they don’t like to be cold when naked.
Some children just run warmer than others. Many times when I asked my nudist to go get dressed for the day, she would come downstairs in a bathing suit in the middle of the winter. “I’m not cold” she’d reply after I tried to explain why she was not appropriately dressed. Bottom line was she did not get sick, and she did learn how to properly dress herself with out resenting me for trying to control her. She is now a confident and independent 12 year old who likes to sleep with the ceiling fan on all year round. I don’t understand it, but she is comfortable. As her parent I want that for her.
- Kathy, Raymond
This is one of those things where you here about it and slap your forehead, saying, now why didn't I think of that? Great idea and good luck with Mookies!
- Molly W, Manchester
Obviously Jake is another who can not bother to read the article and comments on the front page.
- Greg, Manchester
Jake, you obviously do not have small children who have had this issue. I think it is a great idea. Thank you for coming up with a solution!!
- Heidi, Hooskett
This is just plain creepy. The authorities should be notified immediately.
- Jake, Manchester
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