Serious illness sidelines hardworking mother
MANCHESTER - It used to be that Anna, 27, was able to help everyone around her, both financially and emotionally.
From the age of 14, when she started work at a doughnut shop, until this past September, when she was a billing clerk at a local energy company, Anna had worked and been there for her two boys, ages 4 and 7. She had even been able to help pay her mother's bills.
But her world came crashing down Sept. 2, when she developed ulcerative colitis. Now Anna (not her real name) is under doctor's orders not to work. She spends most her days in her duplex in the city's North End worrying about bills as they mount and how she is going to get her boys through this Christmas.
Without any help from their fathers or her extended family, "which is in worse shape than I am," she is unsure there will even be the traditional Christmas ham supper.
"On the way to school in the morning, they ask, 'Can we stop to get a doughnut?' I have to tell them we can't afford a doughnut," she said, adding, "But my boys are amazing.''
They both spent time this fall visiting Anna at the hospital, worrying that she was not going to make it. Although she is home now, Anna is facing the prospect of more surgery in January and more testing.
Zach, her eldest, is 7 and has met his father only twice.
"He says to his friends his dad doesn't want him," she said.
Adam is 4 and visits his father every few weeks, though Anna has full custody. She said it is hard on Zach to see Adam go off while he stays at home alone.
The boys love baseball and enjoy playing in Livingston Park, even in the rain. For Christmas, however, they have asked for an XBox, a Batman Arkham City Game and a Nintendo DS XL.
Zach could use some shoes. He needs sneakers or boots, Size 1, and he wears a Size 8 coat. Adam wears a Size 5 coat and also needs either sneakers or boots, Size 12.
The family could also use a gift certificate for holiday food from Stop & Shop.
What Anna wants more than anything is to just get better so that she can take care of her boys.
"I feel so bad for them," she said.
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